Making the Decision to Leave Employment for Mental Health Wellbeing

Workplaces significantly influence mental health, with research indicating that most people spend more time at work than anywhere else. When work environments become detrimental to psychological wellbeing, individuals may face the difficult decision of whether to leave their jobs for mental health reasons. This article examines the factors that contribute to work-related mental health challenges, considerations for making the decision to leave, and the practical implications of such a choice.

Understanding the Impact of Work on Mental Health

The relationship between employment and mental health is complex and multifaceted. Research by Christina Maslach, PhD, a professor of psychology (emerita) at the University of California, Berkeley and burnout researcher, indicates that various workplace factors can lead to significant mental health challenges. When individuals experience excessive workload, toxic company culture, or misalignment with personal values, they may feel "burnt to a crisp," with negative consequences potentially extending beyond professional life into overall wellbeing.

Job burnout represents a significant concern in modern workplaces. According to Dr. Maslach, coauthor of The Burnout Challenge: Managing People's Relationships with Their Jobs, burnout can snowball into negative self-esteem, anxiety, or depression. The workplace experience often "spill[s] over into a crappy life life," potentially leading to broader health problems and diminished quality of life.

Work environments that contribute to mental health challenges may include:

  • Excessive workload: When employees cannot keep up with their responsibilities despite their best efforts, employers who fail to provide necessary resources contribute to the problem. This situation creates anxiety and depression as individuals struggle to resolve their circumstances.
  • Toxic workplace culture: An unsupportive or hostile environment can significantly impact mental health, particularly when employees feel disrespected or undervalued.
  • Traumatic work environments: Workers in high-risk professions such as military service, police work, or emergency medical services may face greater challenges to their mental health due to the nature of their work.
  • Lack of support: Insufficient backing from management and colleagues can create persistent stress and hinder effective coping mechanisms.

Dr. Jessica January Behr, a clinical psychologist, emphasizes that "if you do not take care of your mental health and allow the workplace to become an off-limits zone for your wellbeing, it can be an unsustainable practice." Given that most people work for the majority of their lives, the workplace represents one of the primary settings to consider and invest in mental health.

Assessing Whether to Leave Your Job

Deciding whether to quit a job for mental health reasons requires careful consideration of multiple factors. Behr notes that this decision is "difficult" and compares it to deciding whether to leave a relationship, as both situations involve significant consequences and considerations.

Before making the decision to leave, individuals should evaluate several key questions:

  • Do you enjoy the work that you do?
  • Do you feel respected and valued by your colleagues and boss?
  • Are these feelings fleeting or temporary, or do they seem to last over time?
  • Is there room for growth, change, or communication regarding the culture of your workplace or the roles you inhabit?
  • Have you expressed your concerns and your needs in a direct manner?

Behr recommends that if individuals have not yet discussed their concerns with management, they should consider talking to their supervisor. Open communication may reveal potential solutions or accommodations that could improve the work environment without requiring separation.

When employers cannot or refuse to make accommodations for mental health needs, "quitting might be necessary to protect your mental health," according to Leela R. Magavi. However, the decision to leave without another position secured can create additional anxiety, even as it may restore mental health in the long run.

Temporary Solutions vs. Permanent Separation

Before making the final decision to leave, individuals may consider temporary solutions to assess whether the workplace situation can be improved. "Quiet quitting" sometimes allows individuals to buy time while evaluating their options, but Dr. Maslach suggests this approach is "probably not a long-term solution to a problematic workplace."

For some, the decision to quit may be straightforward if they have financial resources and confidence in finding alternative employment quickly. However, as one source notes, "obviously, if you had a stockpile of savings and/or you were sure you could find a less terrible job fast, you would've done that by now." For many, the financial realities of unemployment make the decision more complex.

The assessment process should include consideration of whether the mental health challenges are situational—meaning they likely wouldn't be present in a different work environment—or indicative of broader mental health concerns that would require treatment regardless of employment circumstances.

Personal Experiences of Leaving for Mental Health Reasons

Real-world experiences provide valuable insights into the decision to leave a job for mental health reasons. Several individuals have shared their journeys, highlighting both the challenges and benefits of such a decision.

Mallory H., 29, described leaving a six-figure sales job due to stress and unhappiness: "I felt trapped in a world that I never wanted to be in and knew that corporate America would drain me of all my sanity if I stayed any longer. It affected my mood at home and heightened my anxiety. My partner felt like he had to walk on eggshells around me because the stress from work would often make me snap."

After leaving without another position secured, Mallory pursued a degree in social work, a field that "actually inspires and fulfills me." While acknowledging the financial loss—"I've lost money that took me years to save"—she concluded that "quitting a job for my mental health was 100% worth it" due to the significant improvement in her overall wellbeing.

Another individual, a former teacher, experienced burnout and anxiety exacerbated by teaching through the pandemic and its aftermath. The educator described teaching "two to three curriculums at once to a variety of learning levels and an average of 200 students each year" with "very little support in the workplace." The situation became so severe that the individual "was anxious on weekends and breaks because I dreaded going back."

Initially identifying strongly with the professional role—"I used to always say, 'I am a teacher'"—the individual eventually recognized that "a career does not define you." After planning an exit from education, they transitioned to a career in cybersecurity, ultimately finding greater fulfillment and wellbeing in their new professional path.

These experiences illustrate several common themes: - The mental health benefits of leaving a detrimental work environment - The importance of separating professional identity from personal worth - The potential for career reinvestment to align more closely with personal values and wellbeing - The initial anxiety of leaving without another position secured, often outweighed by long-term benefits

Practical Considerations Before Quitting

Before making the decision to leave employment for mental health reasons, individuals should carefully consider several practical factors. Behr advises people to "consider the potential negative consequences of leaving your job before making the decision to do so" and suggests evaluating specific questions:

  • Do you have the financial flexibility to be without income for a while?
  • How you leave your job can also affect your future, so rather than making reactive decisions, try making your decisions as proactive as possible.

Financial planning represents a critical consideration. The period between jobs may create stress, particularly for those without savings or other financial resources. However, the long-term costs of remaining in a detrimental work environment—including potential healthcare expenses for mental health treatment—may also be significant.

The method of departure from a position can impact future employment opportunities. Professional, considerate resignation typically maintains better professional relationships and references than abrupt or conflict-filled departures. When possible, providing appropriate notice and maintaining professionalism throughout the transition process benefits future career prospects.

For those considering unemployment benefits after leaving a job for mental health reasons, legal standards are evolving. Traditionally, "good cause" for quitting focused on physical workplace conditions or contract terms. However, as mental health awareness expands, several states are beginning to acknowledge that psychological distress can be equally compelling.

Legal precedents in certain jurisdictions have ruled in favor of claimants who leave their positions due to legitimate mental health concerns, provided there is substantial evidence to support their claims. This includes medical documentation or expert testimony attesting to the detrimental impact of the job on the individual's mental health. Successfully navigating unemployment claims when resigning for mental health reasons often hinges on the strength and comprehensiveness of the documentation provided.

Conclusion

The decision to leave a job for mental health reasons represents a complex choice with significant implications. While work environments can contribute substantially to mental health challenges, the practical considerations of unemployment must be carefully weighed. Assessing whether challenges are situational or part of broader mental health concerns, evaluating potential accommodations with employers, and planning for the transition period all contribute to making an informed decision.

For many who have made this choice, the long-term benefits to mental health and overall wellbeing have outweighed the short-term challenges. As the experiences shared by Mallory H. and the former teacher illustrate, leaving a detrimental work environment can create space for personal growth, career realignment, and improved mental health outcomes.

The evolving legal recognition of mental health concerns as valid reasons for employment separation also reflects broader societal acknowledgment of the significant impact workplaces have on psychological wellbeing. As understanding continues to grow, individuals may find increasing support for making employment decisions that prioritize mental health without facing disproportionate professional or financial consequences.

Ultimately, the decision to leave a job for mental health reasons should be made thoughtfully, with consideration of both immediate needs and long-term wellbeing. When work environments consistently undermine mental health rather than supporting it, separation may represent not just a necessary choice but an investment in overall health and life satisfaction.

Sources

  1. WonderMind: 18 People Get Real About Quitting Their Jobs for Their Mental Health
  2. InHerSight: How to Quit a Job You Just Started
  3. Therapist.com: Should You Quit Your Job for Your Mental Health?
  4. LegalClarity: Unemployment Claims After Quitting for Mental Health Reasons

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